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Monday, January 28, 2008

A Letter To A Friend

Dear Ana,

So how's your problem with him? Has he said it? No? Well he maybe shy or just simply not interested.

It won't be fair to him if I advise you to avoid him. However, it will not be a wise thing either to go with him without knowing his intentions. It's tough to make a decision as I don't really know him yet. The only person who knows his personality and character is you. So I guess you have to think hard and really decide if you want to take that step.

Emotions are hard to avoid. I won't say things like, "Forget about him" or "Try not to think about it" as it's easy to say but seeing how you are affected by it, I guess it's not an easy thing.

You said that girls tend to be more emotional while boys tend to be more logical. From what I see, that's generally the case. True...girls tend to be more emotional that's why you should be extra careful before deciding. I must also warn you of the type of boys that enter a relationship without any sincerity but with ulterior motives. Beware of such people and stay far from them. They may be skilled in the use of language and words. However, those honeyed words hide a frightening motive. Be careful.

Well, I may have told you this before, but I will tell you again. Remember that your heart is precious. It is something that money cannot buy. So don't give it easily to anyone who sways your heart with nice-sounding words. If your love is given to the right person, you will be very happy as you know that your heart will be taken care of. At the same time, I am sure the right man will be honoured that you have given your heart (something that you have closely guarded) to him. However, if you give it to the wrong person...there maybe sad occurences that could have been avoided.

You see, when you love someone, that person somehow...some able to affect your day by the little things he do. For example, by not SMS-ing you, he's able to make you wait patiently for him for the whole day. This may affect your mood and when your mood is affected, it may affect the way you talk or behave. So you your heart to someone is as good as giving him a hold on your emotions. Why let someone who is insensitive to your heart take hold of your emotions? It would be better if it was given to the man who really understands you.

Understand that you only have one heart. Give it to someone who you know will be there for you. Someone who really cares for you. Someone who you know you can depend on. If he hasn't shown up in your life, then wait. It is much better than giving your heart to the wrong person. Treasure your heart and you won't regret it.

Enjoy your holiday in your hometown and I wish you all the best. I hope that this letter will be of some help.


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